About Somer Phoebus

Somer Phoebus is an entrepreneur, lead communicator and managing partner for swHw, a pastor's wife, and a mom of 2 girls. She’s also the creator of the 3 Step Planner and Productivity 101 which you can find in the swHw shop.

August 2021

Decision Fatigue: What It Is + How to Identify

By |2021-08-11T16:25:03-04:00August 4th, 2021|Uncategorized|

If you've ever ...cried because it was time to decide what's for dinner ...lost your mind at the thought of choosing an outfit ...just fallen asleep 30 minutes into trying to pick a movie ...you may not just be "indecisive." It might be that you're simply exhausted from making all the world's decisions...aka decision fatigue. decision fatigue: the exhaustion one feels after making so many decisions that even the most insignificant asks become overwhelmingly huge and almost unbearable. Take this quick quiz to uncover if decision fatigue is the root of your frustration: 1. I wake up stressed, anxious or overwhelmed most days. True                False   2. I make most of the decisions in my home. True                False   3. I make most of the decisions in my work. True                False   4. I am the one that everyone counts on to decide where to eat or what to do when I go out with friends. True                False   5. When people ask me to plan for [...]

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July 2021

How to Honestly Handle Doubt (Your Own + Others’)

By |2021-08-11T16:25:24-04:00July 29th, 2021|Uncategorized|

There are two main misconceptions about doubt in the Christian world: #1: If you have doubt, you don't have faith. Mark 9:24 is probably one of the most honest verses in all of the Bible. A father brings his son to Jesus who has been possessed by an evil spirit and essentially says to Him, "If you can do anything, please help us!" Jesus replies by telling him that all things are possible for those who believe. Mark 9:24 contains the father's response to Jesus: "I do believe; help my unbelief!” Have you ever felt that way -- where you believe but you need Jesus to help your unbelief? I know I have. Because God's ways are higher than ours, we will absolutely encounter moments and issues we don't fully understand. And so, we will also have moments of doubt. But something I love that my pastor challenges us with often: The more you see God move. The more you witness Him keep His promises - both in His Word and to you personally. The more you feel His peace and His presence when every inch of your flesh "knows" you [...]

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Why Women’s Ministry is Hard

By |2021-07-19T13:48:46-04:00July 20th, 2021|Uncategorized|

You want deeper Bible study and less chit chat. I get that. But you want community + connection so you need time for chit chat. I get that. You don’t want too much fun. After all, you’re an introvert. I get that. But fun is what disarms you as the extrovert, so you would really prefer it. I get that. You want a Bible teacher that doesn’t talk for too long or intimidate you. I get that. But you want a Bible teacher that always knows more than you and has all the right answers. I get that. You want an atmosphere that welcomes your thoughts + opinions + deep feels. I get that. But you want someone to control the over-sharer because she’s too much for you. I get that. You want conversation. I get that. But it annoys you when we get off topic. I get that. You want to learn. I get that. But you don’t want to feel like anyone is smarter than you. I get that. You want accountability. I get that. But it better not be judgment. I get that. Listen, I get all of it. Truly. But as I’ve talked to A [...]

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June 2021

Behind the Scenes of the 3 Step Planner

By |2022-12-06T16:43:19-05:00June 15th, 2021|Uncategorized|

Our goal for every resource + training we offer aims to move from a Biblical foundation to practical application. [ICYMI, we shared the practical side of the 3-steps of the 3-Step Planner already here] - so now, we wanna jump behind-the-scenes and show you the real reason we're confident this 3-Step System will work for you: each step is grounded in godly wisdom. You may have heard us say it before: instead of always trying to do something or say something new, our aim is to remind you of what God has already said -- because what God has already said is all we really need to know. let's dig in: Brain Dump ---> Surrender it all. Anxiety and overwhelm go hand-in-hand. So the practical exercise of a brain dump allows you the opportunity to surrender everything rattling around inside your head to Jesus. Don't stop at simply writing it down - as you write it down, give it to God. Then, watch what He can do. Categorize ---> Confirmation of your calling. As humans, we have limits. In Christ, we can do [...]

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