We All Need Boundaries
People need you. You need people. But we all need boundaries. Culture talks about setting boundaries from a place of prioritizing your comfort or your preferences, but we get to look at how we set boundaries based on the example of the boundaries God has given us. God’s commands are essentially just that - a form of boundaries. But those boundaries are rooted in His love because He wants what’s best for us and His boundaries are always designed to keep us close…not to keep something out. As you consider setting boundaries, think about setting them with this question in mind: How can I set boundaries that keep God close and that are motivated by love? Let’s talk through some practical tips for when boundaries are necessary in relationships... 1: pray for discernment ask God to give you clarity on what boundary is necessary and how to approach the conversation with love and grace. 2: practice forgiveness pray for the strength to forgive the person, allowing God's grace to work in your heart, releasing you from bitterness and resentment. 3: slow your anger when boundaries get crossed, it's natural to feel angry. however, avoid escalating the conflict by engaging [...]